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作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-3-7 00:30     標題: CD同時保持良好夫妻關係例子

小弟早前心裏面有些結，煩惱左一排，, e- i* J7 y2 P2 R5 `* }* U, y% F
上網睇左好多關於CD的網頁。
: S3 a; ^1 L0 O其中這位朋友的blog，很有啟發性，睇左，個心放開左好多。
: b* L0 o. W* s( Z/ L希望同大家分享。
3 z, U8 k% i1 b% \$ |6 G3 y他是一個鍾意女的CD，又好有緣份遇到一個唔MIND既女仔做太太。& A2 r. Z, W; }$ X- h; u6 M3 c
blog入面有好多關於佢點處理朋友同太太關係的文章，都幾有趣。
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連結如下：& Y5 j, w8 X# Z+ S& f; {: x
https://www.myweekendshoes.com/2 ... pouses-perspective/
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有時間慢慢睇晒佢個BLOG，對了解自己都好有幫助。
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" L7 s" Z* u0 x( n4 q/ Q[ 本帖最後由 nanaka 於 2016-12-22 08:42 編輯 ]
作者: jzx100chaser1jz    時間: 2016-3-7 07:35

我太太都同意我CD，我地成日行街一齊買衫買絲襪∼
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-3-7 16:42     標題: 回復 2# jzx100chaser1jz 的帖子

你地會唔會Share埋啲衫一齊著架?
作者: stefaniesha    時間: 2016-3-7 19:26

版上也有不少人老婆是同意滴
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作者: jzx100chaser1jz    時間: 2016-3-7 19:41

同我的size完全不同∼
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原帖由 nanaka 於 7/3/2016 04:42 PM 發表   
# b; Y; @+ G4 i# ~; }- J: r你地會唔會Share埋啲衫一齊著架?
作者: misslady    時間: 2016-3-23 19:15

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原帖由 stefaniesha 於 2016-3-7 19:26 發表   ; S& [0 V! W4 @; O
版上也有不少人老婆是同意滴! L" M0 d( F9 w3 Z( V, P
還有一位最近老婆剛懷孕了
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3 o, {4 o7 H3 t' B. zYes. but he (she) is always CD..
作者: misslady    時間: 2016-3-23 19:16

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原帖由 jzx100chaser1jz 於 2016-3-7 07:35 發表   8 I) X* z% l& |. O- H
我太太都同意我CD，我地成日行街一齊買衫買絲襪∼
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# O6 c; z. w4 Q" L- E' ^So lucky you are..
作者: Dal    時間: 2016-3-23 22:01

我老婆能接受我穿絲襪，但變裝可能就....
作者: hin13599    時間: 2016-4-4 18:01

而家好少人咁開放
作者: ladycici    時間: 2016-4-16 19:02

談可容易，要遇到真難
作者: tracy4    時間: 2016-4-17 15:03

先唔好講夫妻: R3 {- l1 E" q
要女朋友已經唔易
作者: christinecd    時間: 2016-9-19 12:01

我太太知道我CD，亦曾經幫我打扮去行街，不過最近提起她似乎興趣缺缺。
作者: cindyhk    時間: 2016-9-19 12:26

唔反對已經好少有。接受就少上加少
作者: karen0129lai    時間: 2016-9-19 18:27     標題: 回復 12# christinecd 的帖子

佢之前有興趣係咩原因？
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作者: christinecd    時間: 2016-9-20 00:04

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原帖由 karen0129lai 於 2016-9-19 18:27 發表   
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搵d新突破令佢有返興趣得唔得？
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- i  I* d7 F. \- l( B可能最近几年大家工作有些忙，可能嘗試一下halloween 一齊出去變装派對(之前有一年一齊變装去vegas)。佢可能怕我最後會變性(其實我鐘意CD後無耐已經知道我係TV但晤係TS)但我唔知点樣可能令佢明白呢個分別。所以呢排其實係有些失落，所以亦多左睇
作者: christinecd    時間: 2016-9-20 00:11

(唔知點解打到一半出唔到) 所以呢排多左來呢到睇
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-20 04:46

你地啲太太咁開通，真係幸福。! B2 H/ W7 f+ Z% b, Q
我就煩爆。自從我上次（今年四月中到）著女裝出現喺我前妻面前後，
- e( `5 @  _. {佢受打擊太重，Bi-polar depression復發，而家都仲唔多妥。
2 l4 ~, K: ~# j佢見到我啲化妝品，衫裙內衣等就唔Happy。
6 {  U' H# l- m. t' c9 a但又因為已離婚，無可奈何。
: y* n' @$ V. M% X: ]6 M5 \% C, l7 p  _佢想同番我一齊，又想我唔再CD。5 U1 F9 A: v% J! V* h6 Q
但我就企硬一定要繼續CD。
! D2 {( k/ |( p$ L, V4 _佢最終都妥協左，但我知佢心裡其實唔多Happy，
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其實講到尾，我都只係希望佢開放少少，
$ _, H3 T4 o& W) ]8 k, h搵次可以好似姊妹咁一齊行下街，買下衫咁。
作者: karen0129lai    時間: 2016-9-20 17:47     標題: 回復 17# nanaka 的帖子

你同太太一齊返？應該恭喜你架可∼: e0 t0 @2 X  @9 L, y1 P
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佢好唔鍾意你CD，但實鍾意你陪佢行街買衫∼你著住男裝陪佢買衫仲睇得鬼咁開心既話，應該都會激死佢…
作者: christinecd    時間: 2016-9-20 23:24

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原帖由 nanaka 於 2016-9-20 04:46 發表   
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我就煩爆。自從我上次（今年四月中到）著女裝出現喺我前妻面前後，
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That comes back to right before I proposed to her. I asked several local CD friends that what should I do regarding that issue and all of them insist I need to tell her about Christine. So I had a long chat with my wife in a park and she seems OK at that moment. Indeed she helped me to dressup right at the beginning and even tried something naughty. But I guess when both of us busy at work and planning on the next stage of our lives she is uneasy now to bring that up again. Wait until we both retired and kids go to college? Maybe I will be too old to be Christine then. We will see, I started to convince myself not to think about it much but I am glad I still make CD friends on and offline as of today.
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-21 02:25

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原帖由 christinecd 於 20-9-2016 23:24 發表   ) S+ [! a' J0 y: p! ^
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* y9 k2 s! D& K2 I/ V* U正常女人都應該唔會enjoy同扮緊女裝既老公行街Shopping掛。
& j: L* G- _# q# @  {) p除非好似Karen咁，咁pass，老婆又係Les。
7 b! T5 X& u! P$ \5 V+ O不過如果佢唔同你出街咪自己出囉，或者搵朋友倍你。最少佢唔反對嘛。
/ J; g7 m, A% ~6 B' k我就不知幾麻煩。因為佢唔鍾意見到一切有關CD既野，成日要為左佢，收收埋埋。0 y9 e5 a( u0 c' Z) ^0 t
就好似今日咁，我都係襯佢去朋友度，我先有得變身，番到黎又要打電話叫佢回被先入得屋。4 p% h& t* h1 ~$ [1 J4 ]& [% J$ O% c0 T
偷偷摸摸咁，好討厭。
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-21 03:19

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原帖由 karen0129lai 於 20-9-2016 17:47 發表   " z2 C1 k. S* {8 c) b" n
你同太太一齊返？應該恭喜你架可∼
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$ |+ l, y9 F/ q佢好唔鍾意你CD，但實鍾意你陪佢行街買衫∼你著住男裝陪佢買衫仲睇得鬼咁開心既話，應該都會激死佢…
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你講真定講笑。
) R# J' ]+ {, d5 s+ a2 y% @  q% i我一個人時其實自由好多。/ w% j0 e( w* z; X5 ^

; c0 |4 d4 ~) ]4 c) x著男裝陪佢買衫，齋睇無得試，個人會好燥。
作者: karen0129lai    時間: 2016-9-21 07:31     標題: 回復 21# nanaka 的帖子

你肯一齊返都係為左小朋友姐... 自由又真係難得...+ N* n0 Q% d- a0 e

% b9 I& u% t7 d/ O/ J9 c+ q3 B, @4 J我就算男裝出街, 見倒鍾意既女裝都會試~
作者: christinecd    時間: 2016-9-21 07:58

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原帖由 nanaka 於 2016-9-21 02:25 發表   
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/ N7 z( g& h8 R' n6 b- P# D" z正常女人都應該唔會enjoy同扮緊女裝既老公行街Shopping掛。
% d5 ~( S9 v3 T" p除非好似Karen咁，咁pass，老婆又係Les。# G- C/ g" m8 g9 @, L
不過如果佢唔同你出街咪自己出囉，或者搵朋友倍你。最少佢唔反對嘛。
0 e3 {7 L- U* j0 V我就不知幾麻煩。因為佢唔鍾意見到一 ...
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You are not alone. I have several friends who are in same situation and sadly most of them either A. come clean at some point and let the significant other to decide. or B. Keep it as secret. Sometime I still wonder why I start to crawl in my mom's drawer and took her pantyhose to wear them at age 3? But that probably would have less fun over college years and I start to accept it and make the fun most of it safely.
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-22 03:45

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原帖由 karen0129lai 於 21-9-2016 07:31 發表   * n* P1 u4 @3 i0 a: a! I
你肯一齊返都係為左小朋友姐... 自由又真係難得...
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( L0 Y2 {9 d% b3 R- h+ @我就算男裝出街, 見倒鍾意既女裝都會試~
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我諗佢都係為左小朋友先咁。難為佢要同個變態一齊生活。
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嘩嘩嘩！你著男裝都敢試女裝？你有條件勁似女仔，我就唔敢喇。
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-22 05:01

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原帖由 christinecd 於 21-9-2016 07:58 發表   9 ]! r4 I4 f* g& Q

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You are not alone. I have several friends who are in same situation and sadly most of them either A. come clean at some point and let the significant other to decide. or B. Keep it as secret. Some ...
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% p) c2 w# }" m# lThank you. Coming out in front of your wife just like gambling. You may win your freedom on crossdress or loss all your family. Crossdress may give you some fun, but cannot last for your whole life. Family is more important. Me too, I have tried very hard and not doing crossdress for 6 years (after my son birth). And I have tried very hard to stay together just for the family. But her only solution was divorce at that moment.
# b' Y2 R* Z: a3 E7 K, [At that time, I was very sad. But half year past, I started crossdress again. Now, I would like to thank her. I discover my true need. Crossdress is part of my life and cannot be separate.' r# x& f1 N+ H/ P0 l- g
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[ 本帖最後由 nanaka 於 2016-9-22 05:04 編輯 ]
作者: cokexd    時間: 2016-9-22 08:53

  nice blog sharing, she has an opening mind, I am still too afraid to go out in CD mode
作者: karen0129lai    時間: 2016-9-22 10:48     標題: 回復 24# nanaka 的帖子

我敢係因為我見過一個幾靚仔，仲明顯地係男人既德國男人試，仲走出黎問人意見∼之後好開心咁買左條裙，其他人完全無歧視既反應，所以我先敢∼
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) i9 ?% }0 z# a- d+ v& ]6 i( y有d幾熟既會知我CD，因為男裝女裝都有去過，仲有老婆一齊去∼知我同老婆會share女裝著∼仲好細心幫我度尺，有d裙要貼身先好睇，會修到合身，所以有時同款會買兩條∼因為老婆身材曲線好過我，佢貼身我會鬆身∼（雖然都知道係想做多d生意，但佢地真係好好服務∼所以我先話有幫襯佢地就唔會介意你試上身∼）
作者: nanaka    時間: 2016-9-23 02:07

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原帖由 karen0129lai 於 22-9-2016 10:48 發表   9 `& l" u4 H& W; {) b, w! T. ]0 J
我敢係因為我見過一個幾靚仔，仲明顯地係男人既德國男人試，仲走出黎問人意見∼之後好開心咁買左條裙，其他人完全無歧視既反應，所以我先敢∼
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有d幾熟既會知我CD，因為男裝女裝都有去過，仲有老婆一齊去∼知我同老 ...
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明白明白。有先例，所以無所謂。
作者: misslady    時間: 2016-10-23 23:11

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原帖由 christinecd 於 2016-9-21 07:58 發表   " r/ I9 a; I1 a$ ?* E3 C5 {
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You are not alone. I have several friends who are in same situation and sadly most of them either A. come clean at some point and let the significant other to decide. or B. Keep it as secret. Some ...
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6 n1 Q: C4 l5 X% \8 L: }& u>> why I start to crawl in my mom's drawer and took her pantyhose to wear them at age 3  
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same as me.  But I only started from 10..  Now I also cannot always CD...
作者: Jade    時間: 2016-10-24 00:42

真幸福
作者: hazelwong    時間: 2016-10-25 01:45

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原帖由 misslady 於 2016-10-23 23:11 發表   2 D( S8 ~; B2 L+ w

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>> why I start to crawl in my mom's drawer and took her pantyhose to wear them at age 3  
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same as me.  But I only started from 10..  Now I also cannot always CD...
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Age of three? Kidding?
作者: 44533678    時間: 2016-10-28 10:49

謝謝你的分享，我會睇晒個blog佢
作者: Nok2000    時間: 2017-3-28 14:26

好難可以放逐自己內心既自由。。。。
作者: 解曉虹    時間: 2017-3-28 17:00

It is a blessing that your other half is understanding.  This will never happen to me.  She knows i love to cross dress but she is more than 100% opposed to it. I can only hoard all my garment away in a warehouse, and take them home when she is at work.  Selfish me that i cannot sacrifice cross dressing for her…
作者: holdking2830255    時間: 2017-3-31 16:53

我老婆接受我穿絲襪, 但是變裝就..............
作者: tracy4    時間: 2017-4-1 07:38

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原帖由 解曉虹 於 2017-3-28 17:00 發表   
8 [+ S# ]+ K( @" X/ P+ DIt is a blessing that your other half is understanding.  This will never happen to me.  She knows i love to cross dress but she is more than 100% opposed to it. I can only hoard all my garment away in ...
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佢唔接受就唯有當婚前玩法
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作者: 解曉虹    時間: 2017-4-1 08:18     標題: 回復 36# tracy4 的帖子

In fact i do,  the reason why i am using english here is because for some reason my cantonese/chinese input cannot be displayed properly here… many a time i wanted to post something,  then it was only showing the first couple characters after i've posted it.  8 R% N6 B( P3 F% X
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In fact it was exactly what i am doing right now.  I have to actually get a store room in those mini warehouse,  luckily there is one which is only about 10 mins drive from home.  Whenever my other is at work whilst i am not,  i drove to pick up my "proper attire".
作者: karen0129lai    時間: 2017-4-2 02:34     標題: 回復 37# 解曉虹 的帖子

咁怪？我之前見你都出過中文都好地地… 突然變晒英文…
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要放迷係倉果d都幾煩…
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8 o4 E6 r* ?0 D% m( V9 a' a我呢半年都無得著裙，因為媽咪過左嚟湊孫…上星期先剛剛返香港…
作者: cd31415926    時間: 2021-5-11 17:23

能街事丈夫女裝的 太太都是好太太
作者: jesscd    時間: 2021-5-29 21:31

我囉, 而家同女友同居, 佢又唔介意接受左.....
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而家我好多時放工返到屋企都全女裝, 內內外外都著女裝8 m) z& q2 J, ]( E

, o0 n. c" q+ q" h仲會一齊出街睇或者網購女裝
作者: hong1982    時間: 2021-6-6 07:55

因唔想再左避右避咁去玩，早兩個月鼓起勇氣同老婆及屋企人講左自己係CD。
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